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- Time to breakup with self-doubt 💔
Time to breakup with self-doubt 💔
you don’t need to change to be worthy
Okay, bestie, we need to talk. It’s time to finally break up with ‘Not Enough.’

You know, that toxic little voice that whispers you should be doing more, looking better, achieving faster—like life is some kind of race and you’re always a step behind.
Spoiler alert: You’re not behind.
So, consider this your official “it’s not me, it’s you” text to self-doubt.
Because the truth? You were never the problem.
Step One: Shift the Self-Talk 🪞

If your inner monologue sounds like a harsh b*tch yelling “Work harder! Do better!
it’s time to fire them.
The way you talk to yourself matters, so try this instead:
❌ “I’ll be happy when…” → ✅ “I get to be happy now.”
❌ “I don’t know enough to start.” → ✅ “I’m learning as I go, and that’s enough.”
❌ “I should be further along.” → ✅ “I’m exactly where I need to be.”
Start catching those thoughts and flipping the script.
Would you talk to your bestie the way you talk to yourself? If not, time to upgrade your inner dialogue.
Step Two: Romanticize the Little Wins ✨

We love a big glow-up moment, but life is actually made of tiny, quiet wins.
Give yourself credit for:
💖 Answering that one scary text.
💖 Drinking enough water today (hydrated = thriving).
💖 Wearing an outfit that made you feel cute, even if no one saw it.
💖 Saying no when you really meant it (growth!).
💖 Getting out of bed when you didn’t feel like it.
Nothing is too small to celebrate. A win is a win, babe.
Step Three: Gratitude, But Make It Personal

Try this:
💫 What’s one thing about yourself that past-you would be so proud of?
💫 What’s something about yourself that makes you one of one?
💫 What’s something you used to criticize but are now learning to love?
Because here’s the secret:
The more you appreciate who you are now, the easier it becomes to grow into who you’re becoming.
The Final Goodbye to ‘Not Enough’ 💌

You don’t need to do more, be more, or prove anything to deserve love, success, or soft, glowy happiness.
You deserve it right now.
So, let’s make a deal: Every time ‘Not Enough’ tries to make a comeback, remind yourself:
I am already worthy. I am already growing. I am already enough.
And if you ever forget? Just know we’ll be here, ready to hype you up every time. ✨
XOXO,
Glow by Blunt
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